In this article, I am going to share with you some psychological tactics you can use to get your ex back. Although some of these tactics can seem very counterintuitive, they work extremely well if you are willing to give them a try.
Why Use Psychological Tactics In The First Place?
Why should you use psychological tactics to get your ex back? Well, the reason is very simple. Because they work.
There is no way you can defend yourself against those psychological tactics. This is because of how the human mind works. People are hardwired to respond to certain psychological stimulus.
For example, if I ask you not to think of the color 'orange', you will immediately think of the color 'orange'. If I ask you not to think of your ex now, you will probably be thinking of your ex right now.
Your Ex Still Has Feelings For You
Unless your ex is an emotionless person, or they have already broken up with you for twenty years, they probably still have feelings for you.
As long as they still have feelings for you, even if it is just a little, you will be able to use this to your advantage.
Before I show you these psychological tactics with you, I just want to plead with you.
Please be ethical! Only use these psychological tactics if you are sincere in getting back together. Do not use these psychological tactics for revenge or to get back at your ex. With that said, let's move on to the first tactic.
1. Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You
We all have regrets in life. And what do you do when you have regrets? You hope you will be given the chance to start all over again.
The key to getting your ex back is to let them have this kind of regret. Very often, when we are still in a relationship, we tend to take our partner for granted. We tend to focus on the negatives rather than the positives.
What you want to achieve here is to make your ex think, "Oh, why didn't I notice that he/she is such a good man/woman. I shouldn't have broken up with him/her in the first place. How can I get back together with him/her again?"
Here is what you can do.
Be okay with the break up and let your ex know about it. You can tell them something like, "I completely respect your decision for the breaking up. I wish you all the best. Thank you for the time you have spent with me." Be sincere about what you say.
I know this is not an easy thing to do. So it may take a while before you are ready to do it. This can have a big psychological effect on your ex.
They have never seen this side of you when you were still together. Your ex will not expect you to be so gracious. It may make them rethink their decision. Perhaps, they should not have broken up with you in the first place.
2. A Subtle But Effective Psychological Tactics You Can Use
As mentioned above, as long as your ex still has feelings for you, you will be able to use it to your advantage.
So here is what you can do. You can try to make your ex jealous. However, it is important to be subtle about it.
For example, you don't want to take a photo with one guy/gal and give your ex the impression that you are dating again. That is going to backfire on you. It is so obvious to your ex that you are trying to make them jealous.
However, you can probably take some group photos and perhaps have the same guy/gal standing next to you.
(There is nothing wrong taking photo with a group of friends.)
Then you can post these photos on your social networking accounts. If your ex still has feelings for you, it is going to make them go crazy. They will start to think, "Who is this guy/gal standing beside you. Are both of you dating?"
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