How to Get Her Back Even When You Think All Hope Is Lost

Losing all hope when it comes to getting back with an ex girlfriend is one of the worst things that can happen to a guy. It feels terrible when you feel like you don't stand a chance to get back the woman that you love. Now, most men will just figure that they might as well just forget about resurrecting any hope that they used to have of winning her back when they feel this way, but that certainly is not going to help you to get her back. There are some tips that can help you to win back the woman you lost, even when you currently feel like you don't have any hope at all.

Here's what you can do when you feel like you don't have any hope at all in getting her back:

The first thing that you need to do is to get your confidence back. Losing hope is usually just another way of describing what you feel like when you have lost your confidence. A good way to get it back is to get a little bit of positive feedback from women. So, even though it may sound like the wrong choice to make, go ahead and get a little flirtatious with women. You don't have to play mind games or anything like that, just flirt with women a little bit so that you can get some positive feedback and build your confidence back up, because you are going to need it.

Next, you have to be able to train yourself to become a little less obvious when you talk to your ex girlfriend or around her. What I mean by this is, you don't want her to know right away that the only thing that you want is to have her back in your life. You need to be able to keep her guessing a little bit, because it is that uncertainty that really starts to build up her attraction for you again.

Finally, if you are really going to be successful at getting back with your ex girlfriend, you can't follow the same path that most men take. Most guys are going to pour their heart out to their ex girlfriend and then get mad at her if she doesn't automatically give them a second chance. That's not at all what you want to do. What you need to show her is that you are a great guy, but that you are not trying to put any pressure on her to make her feel like she has to give you another chance with her. If you can do this final step, then you should find that the hope returns and your ex girlfriend might even return as well.